I believe most of us are all doing the best we can with what we have. I think even in this often chaotic world, we still strive to be great people. We want to be kind. We open doors for people, we strike up conversations with strangers in the elevator, we may even learn the names of the people at our grocery story or local coffee shop. But we’re busy and we slip up sometimes. We may grab our coffee without catching the eye of the person giving it to us, we put our headphones in our ears so we don’t have to interact with people on the bus, and then we feel guilty for wanting a little personal space. The messages that we receive from social media is that we need to be positive all day everyday, we need to be happy always, and if we’re not kind always then we're just big forking jerks, period.