Because you deserve more than an algorithmic bath bomb and a passive-aggressive reminder to hydrate.
Let’s be real.
You’re exhausted. Between the 43 open tabs in your brain and the laundry you keep pretending doesn’t exist, “self-care” sounds like a luxury cruise you can’t afford.
But here’s the truth: Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s not indulgent. It’s not even optional anymore. It’s basic maintenance for your brain and body—and it doesn’t have to be expensive, elaborate, or aesthetic.
You just need a few minutes, a little intention, and a reminder that you matter.
15 Self-Care Ideas That Don’t Require a Spa Day or $150 Serum
Bookmark this self care ideas list. Pick one thing. Do it on Sunday. Repeat.
1. Put your phone in a drawer for 30 minutes.
The world can wait. You’ll be shocked how quiet your brain feels.
2. Buy yourself a $5 bouquet from the grocery store.
Or just grab a single flower. It still counts.
3. Play your favorite song from high school. Loudly.
Bonus points if there’s air guitar involved.
4. Text the friend you miss but feel weird reaching out to.
No explanation needed. Just say hi.
5. Use the good mug. Light the good candle.
This is the moment you were saving it for.
6. Do one thing your future self will be grateful for.
Clean your kitchen, book that appointment, take your vitamins.
7. Drink water—but make it special.
Add fruit, mint, fancy ice. Be dramatic.
8. Journal with this one prompt:
“What do I need more of right now—and how can I give it to myself?”
9. Sit outside and stare at the sky.
Seriously. That’s it. Nature works even in 5-minute doses.
10. Stretch for 3 songs.
You don’t need a yoga mat or matching set. Just move.
11. Make a “not-to-do” list.
What are you not available for this week? Get clear.
12. Declutter one drawer.
Not your whole house. Just one tiny corner. Feel the power.
13. Watch a show that makes you feel good, not guilty.
Skip the crime documentaries. Go for cozy, not cortisol.
14. Take a nap without apologizing for it.
You’re allowed. You’re human.
15. Write yourself a love letter.
Yes, it’s awkward. Yes, you’ll cry. Do it anyway.
You Don’t Need to Come Up Self Care Ideas On Your Own
If your brain is like, “Cute list, but I’m too tired to even think of these ideas next week…” we got you.
📦 The Self-Care Bucket List from Flowjo is packed with 100+ doable, non-cringey self-care prompts. You pull a card, do the thing, and feel better. That’s it.